The Neurological Cost of Belonging to the Herd

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Łukasz Grochal

Your brain is a masterpiece of evolutionary engineering. It survived ice ages, epidemics, and at least three empires that were absolutely certain of their own indestructibility. It dealt with bears, famine, and neighbors who had different opinions about where the property line ran. It developed language, mathematics, music, philosophy, and the ability to feel nostalgia for places it had never been. It built cathedrals, telescopes, and sewage systems, not always in that order, but always with the same level of conviction that this, right here, was the pinnacle of what was possible.

For two hundred thousand years, the only problem with the human brain was that the world was too simple to fully use it.

Then someone had the idea to measure time spent on a platform and tie it to advertising revenue. And it turned out that the brain which had survived everything has one place where it is completely defenseless: it cannot tell the difference between a social signal sent by an algorithm and one sent by a real human being. Evolution did not have time to prepare it for that. The invention is too new.

It was not designed for the infinite scroll.


Let's start with biology, because biology does not lie and does not have a marketing agenda.

The brain operates on a principle neuroscientists call neuroplasticity: it physically rewires itself based on what you do. Connections that are regularly activated grow stronger. Those that go unused are pruned away. This is not a metaphor. It is structural change in neural tissue, measurable under imaging. The same process that taught you to walk, speak, and drive a car without thinking about it runs continuously, in both directions, for your entire life.

Which means you can lose things the same way you gained them. Gradually, without pain, without noticing.

The ability to focus on one thing for an hour without checking your phone is not a personality trait. It is a skill built from neural pathways, and those pathways weaken when they go unused. A Stanford study by Ophir, Nass, and Wagner, published in the Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences in 2009, found that heavy media multitaskers performed significantly worse on tests of attention filtering and cognitive control compared to light multitaskers. They were more susceptible to irrelevant stimuli, struggled to suppress irrelevant information in memory, and showed slower task-switching performance. The researchers were not sure whether these people had always been this way, or whether the multitasking had caused the deficit. The distinction matters less than it seems: either way, the pathway to sustained attention was not being used.

Muscle atrophy hurts and shows up in the mirror. Attention atrophy is painless and invisible. The only instrument you could use to measure what you have lost is precisely the thing that is disappearing.

And attention is not the only thing you can lose.

The brain has a mode in which it processes information without your involvement. It connects things that consciously seem unconnected, looks for patterns you were not searching for, produces ideas you never ordered. These are the moments in the shower or on a walk when you suddenly understand something you had not understood for weeks, or you know how to solve a problem that had been sitting there unsolved for months. You did not summon it. It just arrived.

This mode needs one thing: for you to be bored. For you to not look at your phone, not listen to a podcast, not scroll. For there to be absolutely nothing happening for a moment, so the brain has nothing better to do than start working on its own.

The infinite scroll eliminates boredom entirely. There is always something next. This mode never gets the chance to switch on, because there is never a moment when nothing is happening.


This is where physiology ends and something more uncomfortable begins, because we stop talking about how the brain works and start talking about what was done to it. Deliberately. Intentionally. With full knowledge of what was being done.

Variable reward schedules. You do not know whether the next scroll will bring something interesting, something funny, something outrageous, something that confirms you are right, or nothing at all. That unpredictability is the key. Dopamine is not released at the reward. It is released in anticipation of the reward, in the very act of searching. This is exactly the same mechanism as slot machines, with the difference that the machine is in your pocket, runs twenty-four hours a day, and is free.

Sean Parker, one of Facebook's founders, said this plainly in an interview with Axios in November 2017. They designed for the vulnerabilities of human psychology. They did not stumble onto this by accident. They knew what they were doing, they did it deliberately, and they did it well.

Tristan Harris, who worked at Google as a design ethicist, which is a job title that sounds like a joke but is not, described the same thing from the inside: a handful of tech companies controls billions of minds. Technology that was supposed to be a tool became an environment. An environment optimized not for your goals, but for one: that you stay in it as long as possible.

If this were a mistake, it could be fixed. If it were a side effect, it could be limited. But it is not a mistake. It is a product. Designed, tested, optimized.

And for some time now, they have been pulling children into this game. Children whose brains are even more plastic than yours, and therefore more vulnerable to exactly this kind of structural reshaping. Children who have not yet developed the capacity to delay gratification. Children who are given the same mechanism that works on adults, only earlier and more powerfully. Without age restrictions that anyone enforces. Without the consent of parents that anyone asks. Without the awareness that what looks like play is an experiment on living tissue.

This is not a business model. It is a monstrosity dressed as innovation.

Nobody talks about this loudly for a simple reason: the platform on which you could talk about it is part of the problem and has an algorithm that decides how many people will see your message.


It is worth pausing on scale, because scale is what usually goes unsaid in this conversation.

Drugs addict millions of people. This is a social, criminal, public health problem to which we devote decades of policy, billions of dollars, and countless conferences. The cartels behind it are pursued by the governments, armies, and intelligence services of many countries simultaneously.

This mechanism addicts billions. It is legal. It is socially accepted. It is available to children from the moment they can hold a phone, for free, without a prescription, without age restrictions that anyone enforces, twenty-four hours a day, seven days a week. The companies behind it are publicly traded, pay taxes, sponsor conferences on technological responsibility, and employ press spokespeople who speak about user wellbeing.

No cartel has ever achieved that scale of distribution. None had PR this good. None were invited to Congress to explain how their product works, only to leave the hearing with a higher stock price than when they walked in.

This mechanism does not leave behind destroyed teeth or an emaciated body. It leaves behind a brain in which the path to scrolling is a highway and the path to focus is a dirt road after rain. Not because scrolling is better. Because it was paved more often.

This is not a critique. It is a description of revenue.


To understand why this works so well, you need to go back much further than Silicon Valley. You need to go back fifty thousand years.

Exclusion from the community for most of human history meant death. Not metaphorical death, literal death. A lone human without a tribe lived briefly and left no descendants. The brain that treated ostracism as a physical threat survived. The brain that shrugged and walked alone into the steppe did not.

Your brain is descended from those first ones.

The algorithms that deliver signals of belonging, likes, comments, shares, "X people think the same as you," are playing on the same fear as exclusion from the tribe fifty thousand years ago. The herd is right not because the herd is wise. The herd is right because being outside the herd activates exactly the same pathways in your brain as a physical threat.

But here is what the algorithm does not tell you: these are not your tribe. They are not even people who know you exist.

Human beings evolved to maintain meaningful relationships with roughly 150 people, a cognitive limit first proposed by British anthropologist Robin Dunbar based on the ratio of neocortex size to social group size across primates. Within that number, the inner core of genuine intimates is around five. These relationships require time, physical presence, shared experience, and emotional investment. They cannot be scaled. They cannot be automated. A like is not eye contact. A comment is not a conversation. A follower count is not a community.

Research published in the Australian Journal of Psychology in 2021 found that heavier involvement in online communication came at the expense of face-to-face contact, and that this substitution decreased the sense of social involvement and increased loneliness. The authors used the term "internet paradox" to describe what happens when a medium designed to provide social connection produces the opposite result. A Baylor University study following nearly 7,000 Dutch adults for nine years, published in 2025, found that both active and passive social media use were associated with rising loneliness over time. The quality of digital interactions did not fulfill the social needs met by in-person contact.

The brain receives the signal of social belonging from the algorithm. The signal is a forgery. And because the brain cannot tell the difference, it stops seeking the real thing, which is harder to obtain, requires more effort, and does not come with infinite scroll to fill the gaps.

This is not a weakness of character. This is not a lack of discipline. This is a casino-class addiction mechanism, rooted in the evolutionary fear of exclusion, deliberately designed by engineers who knew exactly what they were doing, invisible because it has no substance and because everyone is using it.

Most people caught in this mechanism have no idea they are in it. Not because they are stupid. Because the only evidence that water exists is the absence of water, and they have never gotten out of the pool long enough to feel the difference.

The water is warm. The pool is comfortable. Getting out requires effort, and effort requires energy you do not always have. Many people have their own projects and scroll in between. Many have no projects, not because they scroll, but because life is hard, fatigue is real, and available entertainment is easier than creation.

Telling someone in the pool "just get out" is like telling someone with depression "just go for a run." Technically true. Practically cruel.

The mechanism operates below the level of consciousness. Knowing it exists does not switch it off. Neuroplasticity works both ways: the pathways that were built by years of scrolling do not dissolve because you read an article about them.


The way out is not spectacular. It does not require a manifesto, a digital detox, or an app that helps you use fewer apps.

It requires a project of your own. Something you build, not consume. Something where you are the author and not the product, where the outcome depends on you and not on the algorithm, where the reward is yours and arrives when you do something, not when someone likes it.

It might be code that solves a problem that irritates you. It might be clay you shape into something that does not exist yet. It might be a garden where nothing grows for three months and then suddenly everything does. It might be a text you write without knowing whether anyone will ever read it. It might be a language you learn not because it is useful but because it opens a different way of thinking. It might be music, woodworking, photography, fermentation, anything where the time spent leaves something behind rather than just a scroll history.

The point is one: your brain receives a reward you control instead of a reward the algorithm controls. This is a different dopamine. The first leaves something behind. The second leaves only an appetite for the next.

And here is something the algorithm cannot give you: the feeling that time was not stolen. That something remains. That you were the author and not a spectator of your own evening.

A certain nineteenth-century philosopher with a very poor social reputation, who most likely did not have an account on any social platform, though it is hard to say whether because they did not exist or because no one would have followed him, wrote that a man without a purpose of his own always becomes a means to someone else's purpose. He was not thinking about algorithms. He was thinking about something older and simpler. Algorithms only automated it and added a like button.